Have you every met someone that just adds that certain, "I'm all about it" to your life? Dinner, drinks, and a little cozy movie night does the trick. Simplicity at it's very best adds that lacking void of substance needed to make your weekend worthwhile. We fucking? Nah, not yet, we're holding off because love making is what's in the forecast.
You have to play by the rules of the game. Everybody knows that if you are ONLY a hook-up or a beat session, everything will be short-lived. There will be a no emotion, so you are just having sex. There will be no call tomorrow, because I got what I needed tonight. Don't call me boo or baye, cause I don't get down that way. We just fucking 'round. The truth is, you must desire more for your life. Don't accept zero for 100, especially when you are a qualified boss!
Start out with conversation over drinks or coffee. Progress to dinner and a movie. Later, evolve into home visits that include cuffing. There's no need to go straight in if your anticipation is more than the other party is willing to give. THINK people, this is really common sense. Remember, a cozy encounter does not require sex. Follow this and you won't be disappointed.