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To be happy


In Basque, Zorion means happy. When do people recognize or realize when you are happy? Must you go around in a frantic rant screaming to the top of your lungs, "Hey look at me, I'm happy"? What about offering advice on something that's clearly new to you, happiness? Regardless of your method, as humans, we long for affection, excitement, and the desire to be wanted. When we find that special person that wants us, we basque in the ambiance of love and endless possibilities. We over indulge until our girl or guy says, "Well damn, that was EASY." Now there's nothing wrong with spending quality time, but damn - don't smother your new found interest. He/she will leave faster than you can count to 5.

Labels: Is that your girlfriend? Is that your boyfriend? You two just fucking round? The problem with our relationships is that we place a strong emphasis on titles. We do this because we need that title to belong. We want to be able to verbalize to our friends, "Oh, my girlfriend/boyfriend bought that or my girlfriend/boyfriend loves that show." PLEASE! Rule #1, please don't flaunt your relationship around your SINGLE friends. Eventually the same relationship that you bragged about will be null and void. Needless to say, you put your friends in an awkward position, especially when your friends know that you are a hoe. Everybody knows that a hoe and a relationship is like oil and water. No matter how much you mix the two, they will never become solvent.

The truth is, if you are TRULY happy, it will show. Your mannerisms will reflect it. Your smile will be endless. Your dedication to yourself and others will be different. Your conversation will become more polished in the area of relationships, but not boastful. Everything will have an impact. As the clever saying goes, Real eyes see real lies! #stunts.

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