The Experience

Friends! How many of us have them? I have made posts about this from time to time. I typically do when people disturb my chi or interrupts my day with nothingness. Today, I am posting with my take on the so-called characters called friends. Friends? I have maybe one or two. Friends are nonjudgmental, helpful, loving, secret-keeping, entertaining, strong willed individuals that you have in your life. Friends are not leeches that call only when they need to borrow a twenty or 2. They give more than they receive. Friends give without the desire to get anything in return. Is there an expiration date for friends? No. Good friends will be there for you for a lifelime. I have a VERY good friend that I've been friends with since I was in 2nd grade - over 16 years ago. We are still together. Yea, as with anyone we get pissed off at one another. We argue. We fight, but at the end of the day we are still on one another's teams. Moral of this post is - if you have a good friend (the...

Hey Faithful Followers and Friends, One thing that remains constant in my life and that is the power of recovery. I have been so quick to recover in the past. I have been talked about, lied on, accused, and mistreated. I have ALWAYS recovered from it all. I do not want to imply that I have always been the victim... That is not true. I will say that in everything, I have never wronged anyone. This has been the HARDEST thing to recover from. If I tell you that the sky is blue and the sky is grey - correct me. I will accept my wrongs, but one thing that I fail to understand is why are I always pushed to the back burner in people's lives. I listened to Adele's Chasing Pavements. This song spoke to my soul. She said, "Should I give up or should I just keep chasing pavements even if it leads no where." I find myself in that same struggle. I have made valid attempts to give up, move on and date again. I am trying now. They are not her! Sister told me to just NEVER let ...

Who's more important to you than you?

Dear followers, I apologize if I have not held up my agreement and wrote as I normally would have. The truth is, my personal life is not where it should be. I have met a really nice friend, but I am so hung-up on my past relationship that it has been difficult to move forward. This too shall pass, but in the mean time - I'm just doing Zo. Pray for me and I pray for all of you. Zo