The Experience

It's NOT real to them, so why do WE make it real to us? Think about it! Zo

Laying on the futon, I am wondering who's going to make this first move. If I do, or if you, you told me its cool. Where have you been? Its been months since I had some of this. I'll be right back too much wine, Gotta take a piss. It's said that a lady should NEVER suck dick, but in bed, there has never been anything wrong with giving good head. After a few moments of passion and pleasure I'm wishing on a star that this is a reoccurring session. Pleasure is a measure of your passion Zo

As promised, I will be doing an ASK ZO posting once/twice per month to provide light, and direction to the lost, confused, or questioned viewers. I've received 3 emails so far and without further delay: Dear Zo: I am a 19 year old black man living in Montgomery, Alabama. I am a freshman in college and I am a former football star. I have been dating the same girl since 9th grade and I love her a lot. She recently told me that she is 8 weeks pregnant and I almost died. I have not told anyone and I don't not know how to? Help your boy out. Thanks, FootballDadtoBe Dear FootballDadtoBe, Bruh, this is some serious shit. I want to first thank you for being a fateful reader of TheRealZo.com - I appreciate all of my followers and will help anyway that I can. You stated that you love this girl. I'll assume that both of you are young. A baby is a blessing, planned or unplanned. I urge you to seek the assistance of your family. You are a success in the making because you...

Last night I was hanging with some friends of mine. It was like any other night that we would get together and go out to have a good time, except something was different. I was not immediately sure what it was - but something was lurking in the air. We went to the club. We saw some of the same people that we usually see, there was no variance. Something in the atmosphere was different. The conversation was the same, filled with cackles and mess. The people were the same, some a little sicker, older, and less intelligent - but that is to be expected. Ultimately - I realized what was different. ME! I am no longer interested in the simplicities of everything. I aspire for more. I deserve more, and until I get what I deserve - I will just sit here, happy content and by myself (in the happiest capacity that I can). I cannot point out the exact moment when I realized that I was content with my inner me. I look in the same mirror on the wall everyday and see the same Zo. Today, something...

You can not truly be happy living in the low. People may not see your sin, but GOD does This message was delivered at St. Matthew Baptist Church, Macon, Georgia Zo

Hello faithful followers of therealzo.com. I want to thank you for taking the opportunity to stop by and show your boy a little love today. I just wanted to enlighten you on a little about my blog site. As the description says, "... Get ready for the ultimate reader experience. Here, there are no boundaries," I will promise you just that. You will get the very best in inspiration, motivation, conversation, education, and relations. I PROMISE to devote my 2 cents on every aspect of what's happening around me. Ask Zo: One of my favorite followers, Janelle Adams from Atlanta wrote me last week and requested that I start doing a monthly life's lessons advice postings. She told me how much she enjoyed reading my story and how she looks forward to my posting. Thanks Janelle! I will be implementing an "Ask Zo" posting at least once per month. I am asking that you submit your questions, comments, and concerns to me at zo7@mail.com . Allow me 2-3 days to get b...

Apparently Miss NeNe Leaks won't be on the Celebrity Apprentice for long according to mediatakeout.com. Snitches say that she and my girl, Starr Jones got into a big diva brawl and NeNe walks off stage, hops in a cab, and does not return. I guess we will see. While we're on the topic of housewives, my favorite is Phaedra Parks. Such class, poise, and education. Three very sexy elements that I find in several southern women. I wonder how, she, Aiden, and husband, Apollo are doing these days. I guess we will have to wait until next season and see. o_O Zo

Have you ever been interested, but afraid to step out on faith? What about the comfortable state of being single and not looking? Really, me too, but it's 2011... So let's do something that we've never done before? Because I'm interested Can I be an instrument In changing your life Is that alright? Because I'm interested I'd rather be with you instead Of anyone else - India Arie It was so ironic that as soon as I turned on my Pandora, this song came on. As of late, I catch a particular pair of eyes as I am sitting in my cubicle at work. The eyes walk in, glance over at me, smile and continues up the stairs. Initially, I didn't pay it too much mind considering I am an attractive fellow or at least I think so. I mean, I am decently groomed, immaculately versed, cute smile, nappy locs, and I dress ok. So I could see where I would catch an eye or two every now and then. The thing is, I wasn't looking for anyone right now. I mean, I just got out o...

I refuse to write yet another love story and be labeled as a writer with lovely thoughts about happiness a bliss. I would prefer to be that brother that writes of truth, the other side, the side less read or shall I say TALKED about because it is less desirable material. No fuck that. I can tell I lost a few of you with that last sentence - so let's try it again. I would prefer to keep it real with the ugly than MAC make-up the FACE you want to see. Or better yet, paint a picture of the most beautiful relic on God's green earth. I'm real whether directly or indirectly. Intelligence is earned, it is free and costs you nothing to obtain. GET SOME! If you read hard enough you'll feel my pain and my intentions and my story. My intentions are not to confuse you, yet USE you to think harder than you thought the day before. I'll be your therapist, come on in. It's here - all right here, you just have to open your mind and receive it. The funny thing about words is t...

Believes that CLASS is not inherited, purchased, leased, or borrowed - it's EARNED! Once you have acquired it, it's the actions thereafter that validate you having it. The funny thing is, it can take a lifetime to gain and only a second to loose and then be labeled as TRASH! Moral? Always keep it cute.