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She Cheated.... with another woman


If you found out that your girl was having an affair with another woman would you take her back? According to yourtango.com, studies suggest that 50% of men said YES! On the flip side, men that found out that their girl was having an affair with another man - ONLY 22% would take her back? What's the difference?

I read into this with the thought that many men fantasize about having a sexual experience with two women at a time. The problem is, we live in a society where bisexual, gay and anything against the normal is looked down upon. Sexual exhibition, however is on the rise. If you do not believe me - go to Atlanta, Miami, Chicago, DC or any other well populated metropolitan area and see for yourself.

Women that were in the study provided a difference in opinion. Women said that they were highly UNLIKELY to stay with a man that cheated same-sex. Only 21% concluded that they would stay.

Men, of several different standards have been coached into being the sex-crazed, womanizing, raping, sexual harassing counterparts that many of us have evolved into. Media, pornography, sexual oppression, and stereotypes contribute strongly to this behavior.

I testify that men are naturally sexual beings. We think about sex often. We encourage it, solicit it, and even promote sex in some cases. Looking at the situation from the eye of a woman - keep it moving. If he cheats with a woman, drop him. If he cheats with a man, yo ass better drop him. Otherwise he will leave YOU for HIM.

Peggy Scott Adams sang about it in her single, "BILL". "I was ready for Barbara, Susanne, Helen, and Jane. All the time it was Bill that was sleeping with my man." The song tells the story of infidelity. Infidelity with another man. Catchy. Jaw-dropping. Truth. WAKE up sisters, this is for real.

What is going on America? Your girl gotta girl friend, and your man likes boys. An associate of mine did a study on this as she was concluding her studies in college. I may interview her to do a follow-up on this subject.

The advocate.com was my source of reference for this article and it was very interesting.

Followers, whatever you are into... Be it men, women, or both - RAP IT UP! Houses In Virginia are offering life long residency to any innocent idiot. Be careful. Watch out for yourselves and others.

Zo

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