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Zo on Friends

Friends! How many of us have them? I have made posts about this from time to time. I typically do when people disturb my chi or interrupts my day with nothingness. Today, I am posting with my take on the so-called characters called friends.

Friends? I have maybe one or two. Friends are nonjudgmental, helpful, loving, secret-keeping, entertaining, strong willed individuals that you have in your life. Friends are not leeches that call only when they need to borrow a twenty or 2. They give more than they receive. Friends give without the desire to get anything in return.

Is there an expiration date for friends? No. Good friends will be there for you for a lifelime. I have a VERY good friend that I've been friends with since I was in 2nd grade - over 16 years ago. We are still together. Yea, as with anyone we get pissed off at one another. We argue. We fight, but at the end of the day we are still on one another's teams.

Moral of this post is - if you have a good friend (they have been identified, tried and still true)... Hold on to them.
Zo

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