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F@%k You by Zo


So, I am listening to this song as I type this post. I've found that I feel this way about a lot of people right now. I'm not angry - I just choose not to deal in their games. Life is too short, so why deal with them? F@%k them!

This particular individual that I was having a problem with - we'll just call her Debra to protect the guilty. Nevertheless Debra is a middle aged white woman with very racist tendencies. It's not uncommon to hear her make comments such as "Nothing but peace and hair grease and you people." She has connection problems with the blacks around her. She makes extra attempts to make herself look good. She's loves to make the blacks look stupid. To make a black person look stupid to her is like cream cheese icing on top of chocolate cake for her. So I just know in the trunk of her Ford Taurus she has the white bedsheets with the eyes cut out.

Debra and I had a falling out about a week ago - so I stopped speaking to her. The Klan lady wears black rimmed glasses and would appear to be a nice old grandmother. It's a damn cover-up. I ignored the hell out of the Klan lady - I was like if you want to be a bitch to me, I'll show you bitch lady. So I PURPOSELY IGNORED HER, didn't comment on her idiotic statements, and looked at her as if she was retarded. It was killing her. My small actions were sooo devastating for her. She tried extra hard to get my attention. Finally on Friday - I broke. I wasn't really the person that I was portraying. I just wanted to aggravate the Klan lady. She wanted me to like her again. So we had a small conversation about our interaction. So in her mind we're friends again. In my mind - I'm still watching her ass. She'll never have the opportunity to cross me again. Her noose will be swinging in the wind, but I'll be no where to be found.

Lesson Learned: Be tolerant of those that don't tolerate you!

anditisZo

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